Trying to Conceive? When to See a Fertility Specialist

"Doctor, are we infertile?" This is the most common fear I hear from couples who walk into my clinic. They have been trying for a few months, tracking apps, using kits, and when it doesn't happen, panic sets in.

I want to tell you what I tell them: Relax. It takes time.

The "One Year" Rule

If you are under 35, I usually recommend trying for one full year before rushing into tests. Why? Because human reproduction isn't efficient. Even a perfectly healthy young couple only has about a 20-25% chance of getting pregnant in any single month.

When You Should Come See Me Sooner

There are exceptions. I want to see you after 6 months if:

• You are over 35 (egg quality dips with age).
• Your cycles are very irregular (which might mean you aren't releasing an egg every month).
• You have a history of painful periods (possible endometriosis).

It’s Not Just "Stress"

Family and friends often say, "Just relax and it will happen." While stress doesn't help, "unexplained infertility" is a real medical diagnosis. It means basic tests look fine, but something subtle is missing. We can fix these things, but we need to look for them first.

My advice: Don't suffer in silence. If you are worried, come in for a chat. Sometimes, just knowing everything is normal is all the treatment you need.